What Was I Thinking?

It's definitely easier to blame the downfall of the relationship on the other person. After all, who wants to admit that they did something wrong? Do you really want to explain some of your unsavory behavior to others? Admit you weren't perfect? HELL TO THE NO!!!!!!!! However, if we want to move forward and perhaps find happiness again, we have to do it! We need to pull out the suitcases, start unpacking the baggage and do some cleaning. We have to take a hard look at ourselves and behavior. Identify the life lessons that we haven't quite grasped over the years. I learned a long time ago that the lessons you don't learn, you will have to repeat until you do. The set and the characters may change but the story line will stay the same.

10 Reasons Why You are STILL Single

Knowing is half the battle and identifying the issue leads to healing. So we are gonna touch and agree that this entry leads you to the path of healing. If nothing else, you can at least laugh to keep from crying.

Don’t Date This Guy!

I have been guilty of falling for this man. Newsflash...it doesn't work that way.

Cheating is a Game of Three Card Monty….

Cheating is like playing cards...Here's how you win after being cheated on.

Love. The Second time around.

Love is scary. Love is giving another person a knife and showing them where to stab you and trusting that they won't. Every time you trust, and become that vulnerable with the wrong person... Choosing to Love gets harder. I agree with you Wood that sometimes you have to step into the light... But when you have been hurt... How do you do that?

The Get Down….

"The Get Down", has been used to describe many different circumstances, things and actual human acts. But let me flip and use various comparisons to reflect being with that one person, that special lady or that dude, you know that dude!

6 Reasons They Won’t Say I Love You First

Here is why they won't say I Love you first even though they love you.

What do Men Really Want From A Woman?

It seems to me the type of women a man likes, is not the type of woman a man wifes. Can a man have it all?

I am in love with my Best Friend

Now as her and I hung out, talked on the phone and texted we shared everything baring each other's souls! Damn, where did she come from? I wasn't expecting or looking for a boo thang and BOOM, it hit me from left field and crashed down on me like a tone of bricks!

Load it, Cock It, Aim it, SHOOT…. Part 1

Unknowingly, I got hit with a full metal jacket, long range sniper rifle cause I didn't know I was in love until it was too late to ward off or try to control! Damn, man down.