I hate to admit it, but I was a side chick. I knew going into the situation that man wasn't single. My rationale?
9 Things I learned from my Husband’s Mistress
His Mistress, taught me some key lessons on not only the relationship with my now ex-husband, but relationships in general.  It took me a while to see it from this point of view, to understand the lull she had over him, but once beyond the hurt, here is what I learned.